My family is
really into Astrology and zodiac signs etc. All the family members have their
janam patri listing the prophecy and predictions about our lives.
Personally I am a bit confused about its veracity, but I don't dismiss it
completely either. It does make for a casual fun read as it mostly says only
good things about you. I also believe that people writing daily horoscope has a
serious psychological writing talent as majority of people relate with it. Obviously,
there is some scientific logic behind this which is maybe too obscure for us
right now.
Anyways one of the predictions made about me was that I will be traveling a lot
both in India and abroad in my future life. For a typical Punjabi family for
whom greener pastures in Canada and Australia are always alluring. This was no
big deal.
I had memories of long travel since a very young age. My father was in army, so
we use to shift the house after every 3-4 years. Majority of my childhood
memories at that time are from cantonment in Goa where I did my schooling from
2nd to 5th. As our native village is in Punjab. We used to travel from Goa to
Punjab in train in every summer break. It was a three-day journey which
involves changing of train too. It is a whole world taking long duration train journeys
in India. After my father retirement We settled in Chandigarh which was a
biggest city near my village. We were living in south end of Chandigarh and my
school was in north end of Chandigarh even though it is a very small city. So,
on daily basis I used to take school bus from one part of city to another and
later I covered the same distance on cycle at the end of school and beginning
of college.
As I have no intention of writing my autobiography here, we can conclude in a
nutshell that I have been traveling most of my life one way or another. However
last few years have been very interesting in this regard. I come to Gurugram
(then it was called Gurgaon or Gurgawan in local colloquial terms) in 2011, the
decision was primary because my company was in Gurugram only. In 2014, my
company shifted to Connaught place, Delhi. My office commute increased by around
1 hour in morning and evening each. The only solace was that I was travelling by
metro, so it was not so taxing. But even this relief was also short-lived. In 2016 I changed my job to a company based in
Greater Noida (I live in Gurugram by the way). Initially I had some training
and was deputed in Malaysia, but I came to India in last quarter of 2016. Then
onwards for 3.5 years till the time I left my job I was commuting from my home
to office which is around 80km one way. That too in peak office hours in Delhi
traffic. It seems my biggest achievement in that company is not the exposure
and knowledge I gained but rather the feat of surviving this mad traffic for
4-5 hours on daily basis I could write blog post on this topic.
Like any other job; there have been good days as well as bad days in my
previous job, the bad days could be due to extra work on hand, some inadvertent
mistake by me or it’s just that I was not feeling well. But whatever the reason
maybe, the long car drives back home used to become a struggle on those days.
In the hindsight, this daily suffer in Hindi and English, my boss who was like
a big banyan tree and the recent perception by top boss in my previous company
that I am up to no good was instrumental reasons behind my leaving that
company.
Though I am saved from daily office commute in my current job as I am working
from home only. Business travel or official travel is much more here. Most of
the places are new for me where I have not travelled much in my previous jobs. Thus,
slowly, and gradually I am trying to rekindle my love for traveling. This life
has its own charm and I have always liked it. Spending time at airport or
hotels, living out of suitcase, trying new local cuisines while on travel, as a
sign of current times, getting RT PCR done or evading quarantine at airports
exit. I have always been enamoured by people who are well travelled and well
read. Now I am trying to inculcate the habits in myself.
However travel is much more than moving from point A to B. Its having your me
time which can be used for introspection, testing your discipline and
willpower, getting exposed to new experiences, Meditation bundled into
one.
PS : In our society, the janam patri also serves important purpose in match
making as it's used to match planetary alignment between prospective bride and
groom but that is a topic of another post.
PPS : Yayawar is an Hindi work which means travellers or more accurately
someone who is addicted to wander lust. I read it in a story in college some
15-16 years back, but I stayed with me. Strangely one of the other stories that
I remember was titled “Neelkant ka Safar”.
Saturday, 27 February 2021
Yayavar mode on - Again
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